tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9092314350404930475.post3168551382977074418..comments2023-12-04T13:00:54.563+00:00Comments on Life and Times of Mummy Morkus: A Rush of LoveAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05256556326758405402noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9092314350404930475.post-82759742197379093722013-12-01T14:19:50.319+00:002013-12-01T14:19:50.319+00:00I had a section when 'The Fairy ' was born...I had a section when 'The Fairy ' was born and forceps with 'The Frog' - I found speaking to 'birth afterthoughts service' - a specially trained midwife who talks through what happened in my labours to be really helpful to understand what happened. Thank you for sharing your story and thank you for joining in with the Monday Parenting Pin it Party.thefairyandthefroghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07741004963330079422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9092314350404930475.post-26638003187053427072013-11-25T17:08:06.476+00:002013-11-25T17:08:06.476+00:00Thank you all wonderful ladies. I have been over w...Thank you all wonderful ladies. I have been over whelmed with the response to this post. It makes me feel brave and strong for sharing and I needed those feelings again after not feeling like that during or after my labour. Thank you again.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05256556326758405402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9092314350404930475.post-6879859873910534892013-11-24T21:54:06.895+00:002013-11-24T21:54:06.895+00:00What a beautiful post to share - because it's ...What a beautiful post to share - because it's so special to let other mum's know they aren't on their own. I had a natural birth but with us both ending up heading off in different direction - love definitely crept up on us rather than arriving in a burst of 'ta dah'. It's a tough thing to talk about - so this is a post you should be really proud of.<br />#PoCoLoSharonMShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00000069543081526555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9092314350404930475.post-84730260630324781552013-11-24T14:51:31.897+00:002013-11-24T14:51:31.897+00:00I really don't believe you are alone in this -...I really don't believe you are alone in this - I can see from the comments above. I sometimes feel guilty because I don't think I love Grace enough! Although how much is enough?! That must have been tough for you. Thanks for linking to PoCoLo xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17488151945036286537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9092314350404930475.post-91456335363951254562013-11-24T11:29:43.824+00:002013-11-24T11:29:43.824+00:00This is a lovely post. I guess, although it's ...This is a lovely post. I guess, although it's very hard, we mums need to remember that with all those hormones running around and the expectations we put on ourselves, that we need to relax. There isn't a proper order for things to happen!<br /><br />A friend of mine wrote me an email yesterday explaining feelings very similar to this, which she let me put in a blog post: http://www.mumsdays.com/baby-bond/<br /><br />I think it's great that we can be honest and open in this community and let others know they aren't alone OR doing anything wrong, it's just sometimes one of those things - it took you a few weeks to get the bond, it took my friend over a year! - but I believe it will come at some point :) Thanks love xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15182108744171351653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9092314350404930475.post-62425236737592582502013-11-23T17:09:38.311+00:002013-11-23T17:09:38.311+00:00this really resonates with me. I had an emergency ...this really resonates with me. I had an emergency section and this is so how i felt with my first! big hugs lovely xJaime Oliverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04569927452507747191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9092314350404930475.post-82919440044275261852013-11-23T14:48:28.764+00:002013-11-23T14:48:28.764+00:00This is beautiful! I remember when Little Man was ...This is beautiful! I remember when Little Man was born, all I had been focussing on was finally being at the end of 9 months of sheer hell and suddenly he was there and it completely threw me! I remember the feelings of "what do I do now?" I think love creeps up on you over time and is built upon constantly. I never had that "rush of love" but I do remember being fiercely protective of him even when still thinking "he could be anyone's baby right now". Thank you for sharing so openly what I am sure so many women experience in some way... it sounds like you had a really rough delivery and I cannot imagine how that must have been, but your sharing this opens my eyes!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9092314350404930475.post-40599419780784184532013-11-23T12:47:22.338+00:002013-11-23T12:47:22.338+00:00Aww you went through so much ...Lovely post...
I ...Aww you went through so much ...Lovely post...<br /><br />I remember your body gets to a point when you feel like your not yourself for a while and trys to shut out the pain, ,then you rush with emotions on how much you love them holding this sweet little bundle in your arms,,, aww my youngest is 8 now :)Claire Justinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14748004050526495714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9092314350404930475.post-42774211837827376372013-11-23T00:38:05.401+00:002013-11-23T00:38:05.401+00:00I think you are not alone in these feelings at all...I think you are not alone in these feelings at all! Thank you for sharing them. Although I had a c section too, it was a different story it was planned and peaceful and happy, for which I am eternally grateful... I really hope that if there is a next time for you it goes off without a hitch xLauren - Scrapbook Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13765315349290974852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9092314350404930475.post-20639770359969465602013-11-22T22:03:28.516+00:002013-11-22T22:03:28.516+00:00I had an emergency section with my first, and if I...I had an emergency section with my first, and if I'm honest, the connection took a long time, which I didn't really realise until I'd had my second, by calm elective, and connected straight away. Brave, lovely post xx #PoCoLo Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com